And A Little Child Shall Lead Them

When my son was a fourth-grader, he came home one day and announced he had a new student leader helping his teacher.

“Did your old teacher assistant leave?” I asked.

“No,” he replied, “Mrs. Greer is still there.”

“What’s your new student leader’s name?” I asked.

Without looking up from kicking his soccer ball, he responded matter-of-factly: “Tommy.”

I instantly knew this was weird. Fourth-graders don’t refer to their teachers by their first names. Tenth-graders use teachers’ first names as an act of rebellion; twelfth-graders do it to sound grown up and cool. But most fourth-graders are not that interested in being rebellious or cool.

As it turned out, Tommy was a sixth-grader and a part of a cross-age education effort to let older students tutor younger students. The concept was that elementary students often respond better to older peers than to a teacher, and placing teaching responsibility on the older students increased their growth as well.

A few months into my son’s experience, I asked how he and Tommy were doing.

“He’s not a student leader anymore,” he replied. I decided to keep my mouth closed to see if he would fill me in. He continued, “Tommy thought he knew more about math than me. And when I was getting answers faster than he did, he got really mad.  He started putting me down.  Mrs. Greer heard him and took his job away from him.”

Out of nowhere came the unexpected wisdom only a child can render:  “Real student leaders don’t put people down.”

Bill Treasurer’s new book, Leaders Open Doors, is grounded in the wisdom of his young son’s school experience.  Like my son, such lessons can be profound and insightful.  In Bill’s case the lesson from his son will create an unexpected shift in your paradigms reframing what you thought you knew about leadership.  It unfolds a refreshingly new underpinning and scaffolding for the contemporary practice of leadership. 

Today’s followers have elevated their intolerance for leaders who “put people down” instead of lifting them up.  They gravitate instead toward leaders who proactively and joyfully open doors for all the people they lead.  Buy this great book to learn much more.   http://amzn.to/10IBCkk

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Service Star or Service Planet

Sooner or later the skies become a big topic of conversation with a child   A long look coupled with a detailed conversation takes the mentoring dialogue to the really big deal part:  Why do some lights twinkle and some do not; why do some seem tiny; some seem large?  On the other side of this discussion is the fact that some planets are cold; some stars are hot.

After one such granddaddy conversation, a granddaughter’s affirmative declaration is made:  “I want to be a star.”  Planets reflect; stars burn.  Planets are masses of matter; stars are masses of energy.  There is a big difference…especially, when it comes to attitude.

Walking through the shopping mall with that same granddaughter cleverly elicited a new grading system. “She’s a planet; he’s a star.  He’s a cold planet; she’s a hot star.”  Kids know!  They always know the difference between a passionate service person burning up the sky with their passion and enthusiasm to serve.  They can also spot a cold planet—just going through the motions while stoically waiting on quitting time.  Would your customers assess you as a bright star or a cold planet?

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Is Your Service a Means or an End?

I have a new handyman.  And, Mike is terrific.  It all started with a simple chore—power washing a sidewalk and applying a concrete sealer.  I had power washed it before but the sycamore trees nearby had stained the concrete so much it need a pro with an industrial strength power washer.  Mike came highly recommended.

Mike showed up on time, had a very cheerful attitude, gave me a reasonable price, and offered to do the decks nearby at no extra charge.  Watching him work communicated a lot about his disposition toward labor.  He looked like he was playing golf or baking a cake or building his daughter a playhouse.  It was clearly a labor of love not a laborious chore.

When he finished he knocked on the door.  I handed him a check.  “Thank you, sir,” he said. “But, before I take your money, I would like to make sure you are happy with my work.”  I assured him that I was.  And, I was curious about his attitude.  “What makes you so noticeably happy doing this type of work?” I asked.  I got a quick lesson in purposeful work.

“This is not my job,” he explained, “this is more like my hobby.”

Before I could speak, he continued.  “My brother is in rehab.  His painful stretches and aching exercises are a job.  My nephew has cancer.  His really bad nausea after chemo is a job.  I decided I was a lucky man to be healthy getting to earn a living on my own terms.  The money you give me pays my rent; but getting to do this work is my best payment.” 

What if you power served your customers like Mike power washes concrete?  Make serving others an end in itself not just a means to a paycheck.

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The Customer Most Likely to Succeed

High school reunions are always an interesting time to compare prediction with reality.  Invariably someone brings a class yearbook.  It triggers many before and after thoughts.  Is the homecoming queen as attractive as when she was crowned?  Is the “wittiest” senior still funny?  And, the most fascinating question:  how did the class member chosen as “most likely to succeed” actually turn out?

Service providers can sometimes make assumptions about customers.  The poorly dressed patron may be a rich person in disguise.  The gruff customer may be just dealing with a major personal challenge.  And, the person wanting change for a dollar may be a prospect for a sizable purchase and/or a long term relationship.

When Seafirst Bank customer John Barrier tried to get a fifty cent parking ticket validated after cashing a check, the teller informed him that his transaction did not qualify a bank customer for free parking.  Barrier had been a customer of the Spokane bank for thirty years.  And, Mr. Barrier’s response?  He moved his million dollar balance to the competitor down the street.  And the lesson learned by the bank:  Treat every customer like the “person most likely to succeed.”  You never know when they will be.

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Customer Experience as a Story

I once had a wonderful colleague whom I worked with as a co-facilitator of workshops with senior leaders.   He was a very bright and confident presenter who could lead a spirited discussion with the most challenging participant.  He also loved to tell stories.

His stories were typically long and detailed.  But, he never learned an important storytelling principle:  enchanting participants to join him on a long, detailed fable only works if the story’s punch line is insightful or compelling enough to make worthwhile the trip through its intricate details.  He has now retired and only worries about the attention span of his grandchildren.

Customers are a lot like workshop participants required to sit under the influence of a storyteller with a minutia problem.  Most service has service hoops customers are required to jump through.  Fortunately, customers are more than willing to jump through hoops—a lot of hoops.  However, hoop jumping wears quickly thin if the quality of the experience (like a punch line) does not make the trip worthwhile.   Smart service providers attack the issue in two ways.  They take as much minutia out of the service processes as is possible while elevating the value of the service experience.   If your service experience was a story, how long would you retain your customer’s attention span?

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Customers Love “Four-Way Stops”

Four-way stops are exercises in decorum without supervision!  Every driver knows the rules about who goes next and who has the right of way should turns be involved.  There is no traffic light or police officer to ride herd over the proper behavior.  And, at four way stops drivers are more careful and courteous than they might be with yellow traffic lights.

Customers love to be trusted.  The newspaper machine trusts you will take only one paper when you could take the entire stack to share with your friends.  The open air market assumes no one will shoplift an apple.  Are there ill-mannered thieves who greedily hoist their way onto the system?  Of course.  But, the typical customer who is trusted responds by refusing to game the system.

Trust begins with an attitude toward customers.  Signage, for instance, communicates a lot about your attitude toward customers.  “No Smoking” can easily become “Thank you for not smoking” and with greater success.  “Overdue Fees” at the library sounds much harsher than “Extended Use fees” like the movie rental store.  What signs of trust can your customers see in how you serve them?

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What Suits Your Attitude?

You are in complete control of your attitude.  Victor Frankl in his classic book, Man’s Search For Meaning, described how prisoners at the Auschwitz concentration camp in World War II determined their longevity by the way they imagined their future.  The book has sold over 10 million copies.  Camp survivors did not let their cruel guards determine their attitude toward life.  While they had no control over their physical fate, they did have total domination over how they emotionally viewed their fate.

Customers love service people with a positive attitude!  At the world famous Stew Leonard’s Dairy, the most successful grocery store in the world, if an employee shows up for work with less than a positive attitude, that employee gets to don the cow suit.  The store’s mascot and brand symbol is a milk cow.  A short time in the cow suit entertaining guests in the store seems to work wonders in transforming a down-in-the-dumps associate into a happy funmeister.  Disneyworld costumed characters are legendary for staying in character, regards of the July heat, noisy crowd, or Monday-morning-after-a-partying-weekend!

You don’t need a suit to convey a happy disposition.  It can come simply for electing to make each day a very special day.  It emerges from an optimistic choice to be more patient, less judgmental and more grateful that you have another day to spread joy to those around you.   Suit up a positive attitude and watch it attract customers eager to give you their funds, their time and their advocacy!

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Leave the Gate Open

In 1907, Carnation introduced a new advertising tagline for its condensed milk product: “Milk from Contented Cows.”  Growing up on a cattle farm where we produced our own milk, I often heard the ads and wondered what made a cow contented.  Cows seemed to already have a life without much stress.  My dad suggested it probably meant milk from a cow that was (or thought it was) free and not confined to a set geography.

“Someone left the gate open,” was the usual explanation for those rare occasions when a group of our cows escaped their fence and barbed wire bordered field to wander into the woods, along the public road, or into a neighbor’s fields.  When a group of cows shed their prisoner status for an early morning hiatus, my father’s directive to me or my brother was to go retrieve “the contented cows.”

The contentment of cow freedom, however, carried a modicum of cow challenge.  Cows in our fields could always count on water plus shelter from the hot sun or rain.  There was green grass to graze in the summer and hay bales thrown from the back of a truck in the winter.  However, outside the walls of security they were subjected to fast cars on the road, no shield from the stark elements of nature, and vulnerable to unscrupulous farmers willing to quickly load up a few strays and take them to market instead of returning them to their rightful owner.

People are like cows.  No, I did not say people were cows.  But, the concept of freedom and contentment are similarly linked.  When leaders “leave the gate open” giving employees the freedom to work in pursuit of a purpose instead of under a boss, their contentment results in greater productivity and enhanced innovation.  Empowerment does not mean unlimited license; it means responsible freedom.  There is no place in organizations for reckless actions or foolhardy performance.

When leaders treat employees like partners, employees respond by acting like owners who are eager to take care of the organization. They embrace challenge and change instead of acting like an entitled victim when a part of the realities of business challenges.  Employees will deliver excellence when barbed wire fences are removed—those barriers of purposeless work, threat of retribution for error, absence of needed proficiency, or the perception of no reward for responsible risk-taking. If you are a leader, leave the gate open and become an obvious champion of contented employees!

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Make Everyday a Respectful Disney Moment

We were conducting a customer service workshop for the amazing housekeeping staff of the Jacob Javits Convention Center in New York City.  They are called “Environmental Services” at the Center.  The small group task we assigned each of the five table groups was: “What does ‘respect’ look like to your customers and colleagues?”  Respect happens to be one of the Javits Center’s new service standards.  Many of the participants only spoke Spanish so we used a translator.  The spokesperson for a group of largely Hispanic participants said (in Spanish), “Respect is making everyone feel like it is a day at Disneyworld.”  The class applauded at his deep insight!

We think of Disney moments as all about delight, fun, or magic.  Only a brilliant person would read “respect” into such an experience.  Yet, respectful service is fundamentally about creating customer experiences laced with esteem. It is grounded in a deep devotion to the customer and the customer’s welfare.  It is confident deference to customers without the slightest hint of servitude.

Now, here is the best part about customer respect.  It is the very core of what the wise cleaner was communicating.  Respect is borne of enormous pride in one’s role and workmanship manifested as a kind of invitation to the experience.  It is as if the service person is saying to customers, “Come witness and experience my excellent work, crafted just for you.”

If you asked your customers to characterize their service experience when dealing with you, would “respect” be a part of their description?  Before delight is viewed as authentic and before extraordinary is seen as real, there must be obvious respect woven throughout.

 

 

 

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“Grooming” Your Customers

Chimpanzees engage in the tradition of grooming.  It is a social activity that lowers tension and builds bonds among group members.  Mutual grooming involves picking through each other’s hair to remove insects, dirt and seeds.  Some groups of Chimps even have a custom that involves a pair of chimps crossing palms above their heads and grooming each other with their free hands.

Now, please don’t take this too literal.  Could it be that through natural selection Homo sapiens transformed crossed palms into handshakes but lost the grooming feature of social connections?  What if we brought back “grooming” to social interactions?  In some parts of the country visitors bring a gift when visiting someone they have not seen in a while.  That’s grooming.  Have you ever brought a bottle of wine to the host of a dinner party at which you were an invited guest?  That’s grooming.

“Grooming” enriches greetings.  It nurtures early trust as it adds a spirit of generosity to a new encounter.  Waiters at Vincenzo’s Ristorante in Omaha, NE, greet patrons at their tables with a pitcher of “honor wine”—a high-end Chianti.  “Enjoy this if you like,” a waitress told a group of us one evening.  “The first glass is on the house.  We charge by the glass.  At the end of the meal just let me know how many glasses you had and I’ll add it to your bill.”  When we asked the restaurant owner on our way out how many patrons drank the “honor wine” beyond the complimentary glass and accurately reported what they consumed, he smiled and said, “Most do…it’s one of our best features!”  The restaurant has twice been voted “Best of Omaha” by Omaha City Weekly.

How can you “groom” your customers?  Like the chimps, grooming may begin as a single gesture and end with mutual admiration.  Customers will “groom” you back with their return and their advocacy.

 

 

 

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